pennsylvania high school teacher records and distributes video of student with his transgender date, pokes fun, incites bullying

School teacher in Hannover, PA incited bullying by recording and distribution/screening video of student dancing with his transgender prom date to make fun of him.  Students begin bullying him at direction of teacher.  This is insane!

high school bars lesbian couple from entering prom

Catholic high school bans a same-sex couple from entering the prom.  Students rally in support by holding their own prom right outside the doors of the Catholic school. Love and Equality? Not a Catholic value apparently.

jay-z has not always been my favorite artist, but now he is :)

Jay-Z discusses Obama's support of same-sex marriage, agrees with President.

finally letting go - a culmination of events until now

I have been on a journey for a while, but things are starting to change.  As cliché as it sounds, I have decided that I am going to “let go, and let god” as they say.  I am surrendering all as they say.  My way has not worked at all, and the only thing that has been holding me back from accepting that reality is my worthless ego.  My ego has prevented me from accepting my truth that I have no freaking clue what I am doing… that I am now 28, and the problems I have been trying to fix in my life have still not been fixed.  Ten years later, I am still dealing with the same crap.  I am still dealing with the same pain, the same struggle.  So I am turning it over to god.  I don’t really have any other alternative, and I haven’t had any for a while now.  And that’s not why I am surrendering my ego and asking god to intervene, but because I really think I deserve to have faith.

You see, while I have openly and ruthlessly combated the so-called “Christian” viewpoint that I cannot be a homosexual and have faith, as well as everything else “Christian” just because that self-righteous view played a huge role in me ultimately losing my faith in god.  My bitterness towards mean Christians, the self-righteous, loud, gay-bashing ones you see on TV and in public if you are from a small town, just has become too exhausting.  And yes, I have been bullying mean Christians right back, and I will be the first to admit that it feels really good to bully back.  It feels validating.  Particularly now, that for the majority of my life Christians and society have both agreed that I am gross, immoral, and unacceptable, yet suddenly society’s voice in that regard has completely though gradually diminished and it is now only the mean Christians saying so.  With society at large now saying I am moral, I am beautiful and pointing the finger with me at Christians as the hate-mongers, gay-bashers, etc.  Yes, it feels great that the tables have turned and I can now be the bully and get back at them for hurting me for so many years, get back at them for diminishing my faith and my birth right to love god and be loved back.

And all the while knowing in my heart that while it feels good in a crude way, it also feels bad to become them.  Revenge feels good in one way, but not taking the high road also feels bad.  It has also become really hard to reconcile the fact that there are many, many GOOD people who are Christians and who act like what Christ would act like.  It became hard for me to lump them in to this “all Christians” category that I wanted to be mad at.  Living in Atlanta has been a different experience too.  Even the really vocal “Im a Christian” type people in Atlanta aren’t necessarily mean gay-bashers.  Being a Christian in a bigger city really does not automatically come with the baggage of being a bigot.  So its not black and white, and I KNOW its not, and always knew it wasn’t, but I was angry and hurt and bitter.  I never hid from that fact, I always admitted that I was bitter and angry.  I am not ashamed of my feelings, my feeling are real and always have been so when people who call me a hypocrite saying that I sounded bitter, I would respond with “AND?” – no shit I sound bitter because I AM! Duh. Tell me something I don’t know. FAIL!

Anyway that’s one topic, one of the many layers to this letting go moment.  Another layer is my whole attempt to fix my life.  To demand what I needed to feel whole, and to make it happen.  My parents.  My father is a Pentecostal minister who in my lifetime has had a lot of really mean, dirty, hateful things to say about gay people.  Is he the same person today that he was when he said all those things? Of course not, but he still occasionally says things that are hurtful and untrue.  He still reads Ann Coulter and all the other haters’ books stacked up next to the toilet.  He still read weird psychobabble conspiracy fringe theories about Obama being the anti-Christ or whatever.  He doesn’t really talk to me about that stuff, but its on this computer desktop, its on paper in letters he writes lying around his office.  And my Mom wants to feel safe.  She finds security in the Bible.  She find security in a belief that today’s English translations of the Bible are word for word literally what was originally written in Hebrew, Classical Greek and Koine Greek, even though it is so extremely far removed from it.  She takes refuge in the security of God wrote it, God meant for it to get to us the way it did, and any book with the word Holy Bible stamped on the front is exactly the same book that God wrote.  Mom is afraid of questions.  Mom is afraid of uncertainties, yet she and dad are both losing their son.  Mom loves me, I know that.  Dad loves me, I think.  Their definition of love is not my definition of love though, HOW they love me is not necessarily what I need from them.  So our family struggles tremendously with my gay issue.

I don’t know when I started to attempt to fix this, to get what I needed from it.  I need my Dad to accept me and affirm me and love me unconditionally, and trust that I am being truthful when I speak of my experience.  I don’t have that.  I need that from my Mother too.  Only recently has she explained to me that she genuinely believes that her belief system is in conflict with my reality.  Before that, she simply believed and even told me that she thinks Im not gay, but a demon tricked me into thinking that I was gay, and I believe the said demon and am still living in deception.  The thing is, I knew I was gay LONG before they started realizing things.  I didn’t have a word for it, but I knew what it was. Regardless, Mom acknowledging that my experience was a real experience was a HUGE step for us.  With Dad, I honestly don’t know what he thinks.  We don’t speak about it.  I never really had to courage to talk to him about it either… except for one time… the summer before I moved to Atlanta.  So in our relationship, every single time the opportunity came up, even though I didn’t have the courage, he always slammed the door shut.  And the one time I did have the courage, he struggled but then slammed it shut.  So essentially my father has made the decision each and every time to shut me out, and not hear me out.

So, I have been burdened with this for many many years, thinking that like Obama, I could somehow strategically sway my parents and calculate how to get there where I needed them to piece by piece make them understand and believe me.  Make them affirm my humanity, my orientation, love me, accept me, support me, support my desire to be in love someday, to have a partner someday, etc.

I have hit the same wall over and over and over and over again.  Maybe this time it will fall down, maybe this time, the door wont be shut in my face, maybe this time a window will open.  And after a year had passed, and another year, and another, well maybe a few more months I can fix it, and so on… and now I am 28, about to be 29, and I have wasted ten years of my life, not allowing myself to live it, but to only attempt to fix something I have no control over.  I have wasted a decade of my life, sprinting into a giant brick wall over and over, and all the while, life as passed me by.  I am not dying of old age right now, I get it, but ten years is a long time.  My stubborn ego really though I could fix this.

But I cant, and I haven’t, and its not in my control.  Who’s control is it in? I really don’t know.  But if there is a god, and if there is any truth to jesus being real, then maybe Jesus can help me. Maybe the only thing I have left is faith.  Faith that someone greater than me has a greater plan than mine, has greater dreams for me than I have for myself, has greater love for me than the love I want from my parents.  When I believed in God, when I considered myself a Christian, I felt 100% supported and affirmed by God, I really did.  He gave me scriptures, he told me profound things, he told me he created me this way and for a purpose.  And I believed him.  I had no issue with God.  His people, I had an issue with and at some point, it went from knowing him through prayer to knowing through his organized spiritual country clubs.

And there have been many many tiny tiny TINY details of my life recently that have been nudging me to surrender all and let go and let god and just humble myself.  From seeing my gay roommate’s Bible sitting on his bed as if he had been reading it, to crossing paths with outspoken Christians who had true auras of love around them, to my mother’s admitting that she no longer KNOWS what she knows, that she stands on the edge of a cliff in her spiritual journey and asks God to reveal truth about this issue, asking him if she has it wrong, then to show her the right, from famous Christians coming out of the closet and firmly holding steadfast to their faith, standing up to those bullies who scream “you cannot love gayly and love God, you cannot be a Christian and gay, you are an abomination, etc.” But standing up to them and saying “NO!” You are wrong, and I will not be bullied by you anymore!!”  Jennifer Knapp holding on to her faith, and standing up to bigot pastor Bob Botsford condemning her on Larry King Live, saying you are lost, you are going to hell, you do not know god, your faith is meaningless, etc.  She stood up to him and defended her Faith.  Chely Wright stood up to the Country music industry and defended her faith.  And they inspired me.  I started watching interviews of them and other famous gays discussing their journey to come to peace with who they are… and most of these famous folks like Ricky Martin, Wanda Sykes, etc only having the courage to come out and be at peace with themselves after entering their late 30’s and 40’s - and I am upset about being 28 and still not finding peace.  Listening to them recall the EXACT same emotions I am feeling right now. Being validated by a respectable person.

So through many many gradual events, so many I cannot name them all, not even all the significant ones, I have come to a place of surrender, a realization that I cannot carry this anymore.  I cannot carry my parents feelings about me anymore.  I cannot carry the worlds feelings about me anymore.  I cannot carry any self-professing Christians viewpoint about me anymore.  All I can carry is me, and what I believe, and my faith, my surrender, my love, my truth, myself.  That’s it, I have no more energy left from this. So I give up.  I don’t give up with a gun in my mouth, I give up my ego to whoever wants it, or doesn’t want it. I give it up because with it, I cant be happy, and I cant be whole.  I cant even breathe anymore.  I am so over it, its not even funny anymore.  Im over this blog entry too. Im so Katherine McPhee right now – OVER IT.  Ive been over, and now Im finally realizing that its not my situation that Im over, its my freaking EGO!!!  Its not important.  I don’t have to be right, I don’t have to be validated, I don’t have to be loved, I don’t have to be affirmed. GOD MADE ME!! That’s all that matters!!  Its not up to anyone else to attribute anything to me to define me to limit me to put me in a comfortable box.

Its over.

I surrender all. I let go, God I let you. Holler! You and me, that’s all that matters. I trust you.  Its out of my hands now, and its in the hand of the creator of the universe. What better place could I be?

Drew

PS. I created a new blog, a video blog putting faces and voices to this process.  I created it for mom, dedicated to her, but in truth, its what helped me find this courage to let go.  It was me that needed fixing all along.

CHECK IT OUT – momsbridge.blogspot.com

 

andrew sullivan (and andrew murray) discusses reaction to president obama's endorsement of same-sex marriage

As many people I imagine, Andrew Sullivan cried when he heard the words of Obama.  No one was expecting it, I certainly wasn't expecting it.  I knew all along, that after the second election, Obama would come out in full force for marriage equality, employment non-discrimination, etc. because Obama not only has morals, but also has game. He has strategy.  I would much rather want him to come out in support of gay rights after his re-election, than risk not getting one by coming out now, because ultimately, I want to have equal rights more than I want presidential approval.

Still, I had no idea what was about to happen. I did read on the blogs that there was some confusion about some off-comment idea of the white house having conflicting statements on same-sex marriage, but to me I didnt consider that news.  Obama has all but come out in support of same-sex marriage, all the while refusing to defend DOMA in court, and coming out against anti-gay constitutional amendment referendums because they are "divisive". His rhetoric has been conflicted, barely walking a line between support and non-support.  Sure, it was annoying to hear conservative folks argue "your liberal president doesnt even support you" etc. But it was a strategy, a means to an end.

Over a dozen major national polls over the past year have all indicated that a majority of Americans now support same-sex marriage, gay rights, think gays are no less moral than straights, etc ranging from 52-60% depending on the poll.  But Dont Ask Dont Tell had 80% support from Americans to repeal it and they BARELY got it repealed.  So yeah, a narrow majority does not mean a President is safe to support it publicly, so again, I did not expect him to come out before the election with an "evolution" of opinion.

Regardless, I was in California Pizza Kitchen when I glanced up at the flat screen monitors all seemingly on different news channels all showing the same thing, so it must have been something important. When my eyes focused to see what they were talking about, what the news reel said, I was surprised.  I was overjoyed, but even in the instant moment of joy, tears dropped out of my eyes without even a feeling of tearfulness. I cried right there at my table in front of everyone in the restaurant, all the while feeling pure happiness, pure peace, like some weight had been lifted from me.  His words were an opinion of moral conscience, not an executive order, not a congressional vote, not a supreme court ruling, not anything that truly mattered on bringing this hope to fruition, but the President of the United States for the first time in history stated in public for the public to hear, and in his view, I am not less than, I am equal, I am valued.  It was as if my own father was standing there saying he loved me and accepted me.  And for many gay men and women, Obama likely became an instant surrogate father to so many whose parents refuse to say that to their kids longing for that feeling on unconditional love from an authority figure.  It really changed me, it gave me hope, it gave me peace.

oklahoma republican house rep says gay is a choice, would not support anti-discrimination employment law

GOP Representative James Lankford of Oklahoma is questioned on Capitol Hill whether he would support a bill to ban employment discrimination against gay and lesbians workers.  He states that being gay is different from a race or gender, that it is a "choice issue" and he would not support protection of "behaviors".

Um... are we forgetting that religion IS a choice issue? And it is protected already - you are not born religious, but you are born with a sexual orientation.  He also contradicts himself stating that people have tendencies but simultaneously choose their orientations... which are somehow related to some type of behavior... not sure what that's about.

Christian Polling Company: Americans Split on Whether Homosexuality is Sin

The Christian polling company, LifeWay Research released a poll for May 2012 which was conducted in September 2011 - not sure why it took them 8 months to run the regression models - that concludes that Americans are split on opinion of whether homosexuality is a sin.  Their research indicates that 44% believe it is a sin while 43% do not believe it is a sin.  Perhaps they wanted to hold off on releasing their research for a time when gay folks would start making abundant progress like we are doing now.  I dont really understand why in college, we had to run regressional models for our weekly homework, but it takes 8 months for a Christian polling company to do so.  Regardless, below is their presentation work - obviously biased to only highlight "Yes" responses in most of the graphs lol.

top GOP documents leaked: demand reversal on gay issues, voters abandoning bigoted ideology in droves

Top Republican strategists advise fast reversal on gay issues in order to obtain relevance. Bigotry as a strategy isn't working anymore. I doubt any of us will ever forget OR forgive that party. Regardless, the panic button has been pressed as each GOP politician has been in a contest to see who is the most anti-gay, the President one-ups them all by coming out in support of same-sex marriage.  Republicans have been pulling democrats and liberals closer to the center for years by running as far to the extreme right as society will allow them.  Last week, Obama essentially said "ENOUGH".  Democrats and Liberal politicians also echoed "Enough!".

In panic mode, top GOP strategists are frantic, reporting "Support for same sex marriage has been growing and in the last few years support has grown at an accelerated rate with no sign of slowing down." Their own polling is showing support for gay rights increasing by 5 percentage points per year, not percent, but percentage points since 2010.  Before then it was only 1 percentage point per year.  Additionally, they advise that Republicans now favor all basic forms of gay equality in the majority.  Americans supporting same-sex marriage now lead opposers by 10% on average. See report below:

 

memo continues...

Mitt Romney's partners in bullying come forward, speak to ABC News

Regarding the infamous bullying incident where Mitt Romney and friends held a gay classmate down in high school and cut his hair with scissors about which Romney laughs about when asked if he remembers... his bully friends come forward about the incident. Since Presidential candidate Romney who essentially fired his spokesman for being gay cannot remember the incident that he finds funny, his comrades discuss on ABC News.

original marriage: union of man and rib

Stephen Colbert reports on original marriage and Jesus' opinion on homosexuality. Apparently Jesus was so enraged by it, he was speechless on the matter.

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religious nut offers arguments against Lincoln Nebraska anti-discrimination ordinance

Religious nutcase presents arguments about why Lincoln Nebraska should not enact an anti-discrimination ordinance protecting gay folks. Among her gems include:

• A study in San Francisco proves that gay children fail all grades K-12 because all they do is rape each other at school and participate in orgies
• The first AIDS patient contracted the virus by having sex with his dead partners corpse...
• Homosexual sex occurs by raping dead bodies of partners, killing them by smashing their intestines
• Judas kissed Jesus because Judas was a homo, and we should choose Jesus not Judas the homo

You have to see this woman to believe her.

Obama's parents couldn't get married in 14 states in 1967

Interesting point that most conservatives "forget" that the definition of marriage has changed numerous times in history.  Chris Matthews interviews Ted Olsen and Evan Wolfson, discusses Obama's comments on marriage equality.

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Washington Paster Ken Hutcherson comes out as gay... well kinda

Anti-gay pastor Ken Hutcherson states that he is gay in an interview with Christian Post.

"Seriously, I am the gayest guy I know," Hutcherson reiterated in an interview with The Christian Post.

Apparently, Hutcherson decides to re-closet himself by saying that he is not a homosexual, he is just suddenly upset after 60 years of having no issue that the term gay, refers to gay people.  He thinks the term gay should only apply to Christians, as if the two are mutually exclusive to begin with.

Sounds like another sadly conflicted leader of the religious right.

protest planned for "beat your gay kids" Berean Baptist Church

If beating children is not something you support, or if you take issue with child abuse, see this protest page to take action.

in case you were wondering.... this is what a bigot looks like.... so now you know

In case you were wondering, this is what a bigot looks like - so now you know! The sad thing is, this amendment has nothing to do with redefining marriage yet again. North Carolina law already bans same-sex marriage. This law basically strips all legal protections from unmarried couples. You know.. all the Millennials today who don't want to get married since its a failed institution. Unfortunately, this amendment will strip away health insurance from children in unmarried households, and eliminate protections from domestic violence victims if they are not married to their attacker. You see, this is the peak of what Christianity has come to in America - FAR FROM ITS ROOTS! The dwindling Christian obsession with hating on gay people has come to the point where its illegal tax-exempt political meddling is nothing more than a matter of social posturing, bullying the gay community legislatively, trying to hold on to some aspect of pop culture, trying to somehow self-reinforce its purported relevance in a modern society. This law is simply a mean-spirited slap in the faces of gay people, they just want to make sure we know that they still hate us, even if the rest of America doesn't, anymore. Unfortunately, while caught up in this bigoted act of hate, the REAL VICTIMS of this amendment are the CHILDREN OF UNMARRIED HOUSEHOLDS. To the church, that's OK - children are collateral damage! At age 93, Billy Graham is coming out as a bigot, as a hater, as an old person suffering from dementia - because surely he doesn't think this is how to love thy neighbor.

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Minnesota GOP Rep. Zach Wyatt waits until end of term to come out as gay, and stand up for all citizens

GOP state representative Zach Wyatt expresses regret in the following video about choosing to hide his identity and support discriminatory legislation in the past.  At the end of his term, he finally decides to make a statement, although many people are saying "too little too late".  Who knows if this is an effort to ease his conscience to prepare for gay life outside of the legislature or what it is - hopefully he will have an effect on swaying his colleagues, hopefully he is doing this for Minnesota, and not himself. His speech below:

Sean "Beat Your Gay Kids" Harris' Berean Baptist Church phoned about comments

In this video, David Pakman phones the now infamous Berean Baptist Church where Pastor Sean Harris advocates the beating of gay children while the congregation laughs hysterically and "amen"s.  The North Carolina church employee claims that the comments are not the opinion of the church, itself.  Listen to pastors words and audience cheers to judge for yourself:

Warning, this is pretty disturbing.

Billy Graham is a bigot

I wrote this to him:

You know whats extra sad here? Marriage equality is coming to America. Numerous cases are making their way to the Supreme Court. North Carolina already bans same-sex marriage. All you did, was slap the face of every gay person in America with your hate. All the gays who once admired you, all the gays who lose their faith because of your hate. That is on your hands. You will have to answer to your hate when you pass. So sad for you and so sad for all the families you hurt, with your selfish war against love.

Russia is the new Nazi Germany

So St. Petersburg passed a law banning gay people from assembling, as well as any type of gay media.  Gays no longer have free speech, and anyone "promoting" anything gay, or saying anything positive about gay people, are now breaking the law.  Now Russia is trying to pass such legislation to make all things gay illegal.  Its so heartbreaking.

Zach Wahls on Jon Stewart... this guy is everywhere...

Zach is like our own Tebow, except he is not corny or lame, and he IS allowed to discuss gay topics.

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Zinnia analyzes the Dan Savage "controversy"

I truly love Zinnia Jones!  I love so many of her videos.  Granted, I cannot tell if she uses a script, but even if she does, her ideas are extremely well put together.  I have never seen a video about anti-gay bigotry by hers that I didnt wholeheartedly agree with.  I have not watched all of her videos, so I am not endorsing them as my opinion, but I am endorsing Zinnia as a speaker of truth in general.

In this video, Zinnia dissects the manufactured controversy, the pansy-assed reaction of the smiling/laughing kids who walked out (who were also "offended" supposedly except they were laughing). Watch!

Boy Scouts board member resigns in support of fired lesbian den leader

GLAAD announces that a board member of the Ohio River Valley Council of the BSA has resigned in support of Jennifer Tyrell who was asked to be a den leader, then after a year was fired for being a lesbian - even though they knew about her same-sex relationship when she joined.  Her petition for the BSA to change its mean and discriminatory policy now has nearly 300,000 signatures.

David J. Sims, the board member resigning submitted a letter which reads:


Dear Bob:


It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I write to you today to inform you that I am resigning as a member of the Board of Directors of the Ohio River Valley Council of the Boy Scouts of America.


Yesterday, after receiving the email from Paul Tucker, I first learned the story of Jennifer Tyrrell, the den leader for Pack 109's Tiger Scouts in Bridgeport, Ohio, who was removed as leader solely due to her sexual orientation. I understand that this action was taken as a result of a standing policy of the Boy Scouts of America and that said action is legal. However, Ms. Tyrrell’s removal goes against my fundamental beliefs of how we should treat our fellow human beings and is, in my opinion, wholly discriminatory. I understand that the Boys Scouts of America is free to run its organization as it sees fit, however, I can not formally be a part of it based upon this policy.


My grandfather was an Eagle scout, my father was an Eagle scout and I am an Eagle Scout. Other than his family and his Christian faith, the most important thing in my father’s life was the Boy Scouts. The lived and breathed scouting. That is what makes this decision so exceedingly difficult and emotional. However, I know that my father would support my decision.


Best wishes to you, Ohio River Valley Council and the Boy Scouts of America in future endeavors. I hope that the powers that be will look into their hearts and find the wisdom and courage to re-examine the policies of the Boy Scouts of America.


Sincerely yours,


David J. Sims

p.post.1

This is a personal post where I'm talking about my life in general.  Ill do this from time to time, so read if you want to know a little more about me.  If not, skip over to the good stuff.

Life:

What’ new?  Still looking for a job in Atlanta although I have expanded my search to basically anywhere… that is as long as it’s in or near a big city.  I am putting in about 5-10 applications a day, and am starting to forget where I have an haven’t applied.  The money is starting to run out though.  When I worked at NYK, I spent almost all the money paying down credit cards and saving it for the next several rainy days.  My credit cards are back up to where they were, and my savings are down to about a third of what I had, and the bills are stacking up. *Sigh*

I’m not sure what to do.  It looks like I may need to start waiting tables again or something of the sort.  I just know from experience that when I wait tables, I get home all exhausted and drained from the indignifying attitude of Atlanta diners.  If I could get a job as a barista, or something, honestly, I would prefer to work at an hourly flat rate and not have to bend over backwards for a $2 tip.  I’m going to try to start back rating on Google – this will be an experiment though.  They sent me an email a few weeks ago telling me to stop rating because my pace was not fast enough, but they are still sending me emails about rating, and they also sent an email that stated they were increasing the time allowed to do the tasks that they said I was taking too long to do.  But I never received an email saying I could start back rating… I’m so confused.  Even though I hate the job, I don’t really have a choice, and I hate waiting tables more! So, my plan is to log in and start rating and see what happens.  At least if I rate, I can make $1000 a month, which is enough to stay afoot til I find a real job… that is if they let me continue.

Enteeways… my friend told me about his friend who writes articles for pay, write two or three a day and that’s how he supports himself and his child.  So I looked it up, did some research and found some websites where I can start writing articles on demand from businesses and there are different payout models.  One site gives you a pay per article, so you get anywhere from $20-200 per article… but then another site allows you to collect the ad revenue the article brings in instead of an upfront payment.  Finally, I found another site that you have to apply for and they actually review your application and accept or reject you.  That company pays you $20 per article, and then you get a high percentage of the residual ad income from it.  Since I love to research and write, I think this is an excellent opportunity for me to do on the side.  If I do 3 articles per day, spending about an 3 hours doing so, I’d make $60 a day, $300-420 a week and that’s just from the upfront fee.  The residuals are the exciting part.  It’s one of those things that you don’t see much of when you start but the more you do it, the more you see.  Well written articles can make from $5-50 a month in ad revenue.  Let’s say you get $3 a month from each article in ad income.  You write 3 a day, 5 days a week.  That’s 60 articles a month and $180 in extra income, each article stays online for six months, so after six months, your residual income is averaging around $1,080 a month for a total of $1600 a month, from 3 hours a day.

So, I’m going to try it.  If Google lets me continue rating, I can make $1080 a month from 4 hours a day.  And I am definitely going to try the article writing thing too which would be much more interesting and fun in my opinion.  In the meantime, I’m going to continue applying for 5-10 jobs per day, and will be looking for wage jobs like barista or something casual customer service oriented, I just REALLY don’t want to wait tables.


Dating:

I am talking to several guys, but none seem to be biting.  Dating is so frustrating.  There is this one guy that I really really like, and he says he likes me and he always apologizes for not having time, but it never goes anywhere.  It reminds me of this guy I liked last year, it never went anywhere either, but it turned out he was seeing someone else the whole time. I don’t know, I am so over dating.  Anyway, I have liked him since the first time we met… a year and a half ago.  He was in a relationship, so I just waited hoping he would become single eventually, and he did.  So I’m still waiting, and I know what I should do, I should move on.
But I really really like him. UGH.

Just thinking/writing about it makes me sad.